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Day 95 - Axtla de Terrazas to Orizatlán

In my travels, given my motto of experiencing everything, I have tried to, at least partially, "cleanse" myself of "the doors of perception" (to borrow Blake's words)- age, skin colour, religion, gender and sexual orientation, nationality, ethnicity, etc. But, until the 95th day of my bike tour, I had never had the opportunity to experience a vast difference in class.

Of course, I have interacted with people from different classes in the past. But I had never had to seek help nor had I received kindness from someone whom one would describe as "poor."


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According to Google, there were two ways of getting to Orizatlan from Axtla de Terrazas.


The gray line is the highway, i.e. a lot of traffic and no space for bicycles. I had no clue what the blue line was like, but it was far away from the main highway and, therefore, from traffic. I decided to take that route.

Before setting out, I noticed that the tyres could do with some air. However, the airpump that I have did not quite work. I set out anyway.

The blue line turned out to be mostly dirt roads such as these:






I cursed Google when Brownie crashed because of too much gravel downhill. We came out unscathed.

Thankfully, the dirt roads ended when I exited a small village called, El Cerro.


The paved road led me through these ranches. I hardly saw any people for the next few kilometers.












The humidity made it difficult to bike. I stopped at this small shop run by a lady for a snack. She offered some blueberry water for free.


The village had a bilingual school. I assumed they taught in Spanish and Nahuatl.


I turned towards Tampacan at about 3:30pm. A few kilometers later, a guy came up to me in his bike. He wanted to know what I was up to with all that load on my bike. He pointed out that the posterior tyre needed more air and offered to take me to his place where we could use his airpump. He lived just a 100 meters away. Here:


He suggested that I go back and take the highway instead if I wanted to reach Orizatlan that very day. I told him how difficult it had been to bike on that highway on my way to Axtla from Xilitla. He and his family wished me luck.

I then cycled through these landscapes:










After some tough uphills on rocky roads (Brownie tripped again), I reached a village called, La Mesa del Toro:








The main road in the village was a paved one, but not too long after crossing the river, it was once again a very long dirt track, except this steep cemented track that ran through a remote village nestled in the hills:


I thought of camping in the village. But something kept me going further.

The rest of the road ran through thick vegetation on both sides. It almost seemed as if I was biking through a forest, and I probably was. I did not see another person for a very long time. Since I was in a hurry, I did not stop to click too many pictures. All I remember is that the sun was about to set and I was still quite far from my destination.


Finally, I emerged from the forest onto a road that, according to a woodcutter, led to Chapulhuacanito or simply Chapul. The peremptory rule of travelling by bike in Mexico (and without a headlight) is that you don't pedal at night. I needed a safe place to camp. About 20 minutes later, I was at crossroads. I could continue on the blue line or take a detour to get to Chapulhuacanito or camp on the verdant pasture in front of me. Three kids passing by told me that the blue line would soon be a dirt road, the road to Chapul was a macadamised one. I could not decide which road to take. Something told me that I should just camp in the country. So I walked onto the green pasture towards the lone wooden hut on it.


There was a lot of farmland machinery under a huge tree. But I could not see any active agricultural activity; only lush green grass as far as my eyes could see. There was a trail with sparse grass that led to the hut. Clearly, somebody lived there. A dog, presumably of the owner of the hut, hesitantly barked. A man came out and then somebody behind him as well. They were both hesitant to come out, but by the time I was about five meters away from the hut, they eventually did. I smiled and began my usual spiel, "Hello beautiful people, I am from India. I am travelling by bike through Mexico. I wanted to get to Orizatlan today, but it's getting dark. You, as Mexicans, know better than me that it is unsafe to travel in the dark. I need a safe place to spend the night. I have my tent and mattress. I even have my own food. Rest assured I will not cause any trouble. All I ask for is a safe place to set up my tent and park my bike." The man nodded and said that it was not a problem, but he needed to ask his father who lived in the hut on the other side of the road. (I had seen the hut and noticed a boy was observing me, who I later got to know was his brother.)


I have been hosted by several strangers. And each time, there is a sense of fear that I need to assuage by talking, showing pictures of my travels, sharing my stories, inspiring kindness by telling a reluctant host how I had received kindness in the previous village or town. In cities, I contact people through travellers' networks that have different ways of establishing trust. In this case, they agreed to host me without asking me anything, without any attempt to verify if I was genuine, without me having to quell fear because there was none.

The man introduced himself as Julio. Julio's father arrived. He consented but asked me to put up my tent close to the hut and not too far away in the grass for the fear of snakes. I began pitching my tent. I was almost done when the father asked me if I had cold water. "You pedalled all the way from Axtla in such heat, you must be thirsty. I will go fetch a few bottles of cold water."

Then Julio asked me to move the tent under the shed behind their hut for it could get windy. He said that he would have liked to offer a bed but they only had one- for him, his wife and his daughter.

It was dark already. I told them I was about to have dinner.

"Wouldn't you join us? We can only offer eggs and tortillas, but we would like if you joined us for dinner," said Julio's wife, Chela.

Chela made the tortillas on a wood stove while Julio went to the nearest village to buy canned chillies (I later learned that he actually tried to find chicken but at that hour could not.)


Those were the best tortillas I have had. Julio ate them like a chapati (Indian bread similar to Mexican tortilla). Chela had made quite a pile of tortillas. I was wondering why. After we finished eating, they fed their 6 dogs and 2 cats, and then I understood why.

Chela told me about the different dialects of Nahuatl. I was showing off the few words of Nahuatl that I had learned from an old man in a village called El Nacimiento. She informed me how Nahuatl is different in her village, which is about 25 Km away, and the nearest one. She told me the exact differences in how people would speak the words that I had learned in those two villages. It was fascinating to learn how that language changed within very short distances. I asked her if Nata was learning Nahuatl. Unfortunately, not. Those bilingual schools are not bilingual after all. Chela was, despite her circumstances, well informed through television. She knew about elephants and tigers in India. They were quite curious. They would tell me something about Mexico and then ask me if India was different in that regard- we mostly focused on religion and food. They asked me if we baptize kids in India. I told them that the Christians do but the Hindus don't. They have a ceremony instead where the head of a kid is shaved. I asked Nata if she had friends in school. To my surprise, she said that she did not. I asked her why. Chela reasoned, "Bulling" (Interestingly, bullying has made its way into Mexican Spanish).

In the morning, I woke up to their rooster's cockadoodledoo at 9:30. I could hear Chela trying to scare the rooster away so it would not wake me up. I thought I could catch a few minutes of sleep. But somehow the rooster found its way to the other side of the tent and woke me up yet again, almost as if someone had entrusted him with that task. I thought I would have my breakfast cereal before leaving. But Chela had already made coffee. She also offered me some sweet breads. I thought breakfast was done. But no, Julio had gone out to find cheese made from cow's milk because the previous night I had mentioned how I missed the taste of Indian cheese made from cow's milk. So, they offered cheese with tortillas and, of course, chillies.

It was time to say goodbye. To breach the awkward silence that is characteristic of difficult goodbyes, Chela said, "Pues, hasta nunca entonces!" (Well, until never again I suppose.) That hurt. I joked, "Who knows! Maybe I will find a mexican, get married and settle here." She got all excited, "Really? Will you marry a woman from the Huasteca region or some other part of Mexico?" I just laughed. Julio's eyes were turning moist. Chela remarked, "Somebody is going to miss you." As men we could not have cried in the presence of women. I asked Julio for a hug. That was it. We could not hold our tears back. Julio kept saying, "May God bless you! May you have the time of your life!" Nata, poor kid, even she started crying. Chela stood there, smiling at us. I hugged Chela and Nata. I had nothing to offer to them; I could not have offered my used clothes or cycle repair tools and extra parts. I could have offered money even though I was low on cash. But offering any amount of money felt like insulting them. I am sure they were not expecting anything in return. With a lump in my throat, I said, "No quiero salir pero tengo que ir. Hasta luego, amigos!" (I do not wish to leave, but I must go. Goodbye, my friends.)

As I walked away from them, about 100 meters away, I had to turn my head around. Nata yelled out, "Estebaaaaaaan..." and came running towards me . "Estebaaaaaan..." she repeated. I hugged her and wished her the best of life ahead. Chela was standing in the distance, smiling.

I have no qualms about admitting that I could not bike for too long at a stretch that day. I had to stop frequently to clear my tearful eyes.

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You might call Julio, his father, and Chela gullible for not probing me before agreeing to host me. But, you, like me, are not "poor." And, therefore, accustomed to live a life of fear. You see, Julio and his family had nothing to lose. Chela, in fact, joked right before going to bed, "I hope you won't rob us, Esteban, while we are asleep." The rich, on the other hand, constantly live in fear: the fear of being robbed- robbed of their acquisitions of mindless consumption and their borrowed dreams; the fear of losing to their friends, family and neighbours who have a better car, bigger and flatter television screen, a higher income or salary. Why acquire all that if the result is a crippled, helpless, and often, contrived, compassion for others and a life full of fear?

One of the firefighters who had offered me food, shelter, and friendship in Castaños, had rightly said, “Los que menos tienen, más dan." (Only those who have little are capable of giving a lot.) I wish each one of you get to meet people like Julio and his family at least once in your life. Because these are the people worth living for. And, if necessary, worth fighting for.

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I shared my experience of biking on those dirt tracks with my Mexican cyclist friends whom I had recently met in Aquismon. I requested one of them, Santiago, to let me know if he decided to do that route ever and if he would be willing to carry a few gifts for Julio and his family. Santi, as he is belovedly called, is extremely passionate about cycling, nature, and giving. He and Marystelita have agreed to undertake this ride already! They will be on their way to that verdant pasture almost 250 Km away from their hometown, Tampico, on May 21st and will reach Julio's hut on May 22nd.

I cannot thank them enough. But for Santi, "Todos somos uno, amigo." (We are all parts of the same whole, my friend.)

Day 19 - Ciudad Acuña to El Sauz

Carlos showed me around Ciudad Acuña and introduced me to his family- his wife and two adorable daughters. One of them is named after the Spanish queen-Isabella and the other after the Mexican artist- Frida. He told me how things had improved in the border town: until a few years ago one could not venture out at night because of the violence between the drug cartels.

Having received so much generosity from a stranger on the very first day in Mexico, I was feeling quite upbeat. Whatever warnings I had received from the rest of the world seemed rubbish until Carlos advised me, “No te confies en nadie!” (Do not trust anyone!)

That led me to tell myself that I was in a border town, I had not seen the real Mexico, and I should not be too cocky. Fortunately, Carlos offered a ride till the next town- Rosita. He was taking his family to meet his in-laws. I thought it would be good to see what Mexico is like for a couple of hours from the safety of a car and in the company of a Mexican family. On the way, he introduced me to the Mexican delicacy-Chicharron or fried pork skin. 



They dropped me off in the parking lot of a supermarket in Rosita- a miners’ town.


See the mines in the distance?


I pedalled on, still feeling a little anxious. I did not have a destination in mind. I did not know where I was going to stay. 

I reached the next town- Agujita, where I stopped to buy Gatorade and something to nibble from an Oxxo. I bought these- the weirdest-looking cookies ever.


The guy at the counter asked me the usual questions. He then wanted to click a picture of me and Brownie. I asked him why. He wanted to share it on Facebook.

The Church in Agujita
A few kilometers later on the outskirts of Agujita but very close to the district of Sabinas, I spotted a stall selling coconut water and fruit salad. I could do with some coconut water in the heat. The kid running the stall quoted 25 pesos for 1 litre. We settled for 20. I struck a conversation with the kid. He said he did go to school but helped his father, who also worked in the mine, at the stall whenever he could. A few more customers arrived. I tried to observe how much he was charging the locals but couldn’t determine conclusively if I was fleeced. One of the new customers was a family in a red SUV. They asked me what I was doing with all that stuff on my bike, where I was from, etc. I told them. Before they could ask for a picture, I sought their permission to leave.

However, a few minutes later the red SUV overtook me and stopped. I had to stop as well. They wanted to click pictures with me. It was a full on photo shoot.


When we were about to part ways, I could not contain my curiosity. I asked them how much the coconut water cost in that stall. They said 20 pesos. Hah, the Mexican kid was trying to fleece an Indian!

Sabinas River
Too many roadside memorials at one spot
The Cowboy Statue on the outskirts of Sabina
About 20 kilometers later, I was on a downhill. I could see a car had stopped on the side of the road about a kilometer away. I was on guard. But as I got closer, I could see it was a family. They started waving at me so I stopped. They said they had seen my picture on facebook. I was taken aback. Facebook made me famous instantaneously in and around Sabinas! Another photo shoot followed. Apparently that family in the red SUV, while uploading my pics, had asked people to help me in whichever way they could. So these guys offered me a portion of coconut cake that they had. I don’t say no to free food. We had a chat for a few minutes.


When they were about to leave, the youngest member of the family, Abel, offered me 50 pesos. He said he wanted to offer cold beverages but since they did not have any I could buy some with that money. In a split second I had to decide: he really wanted me to accept it purely out of kindness/love/friendship. I didn’t want to say no. But where I come from, accepting money is not okay. You don’t just accept money like that, regardless of the amount. But then I thought, “I am a traveller and I should get used to relying on other people’s kindness to cover the long journey ahead. I can’t do it on my own. Besides, I can always pay the kindness forward.” So, I accepted the 50 pesos. I could see it made Abel happy. They left but kept waving goodbye and wishing me luck with their thumbs up, especially Abel.

That happened at about 5pm in the middle of a highway. I ate the coconut cake as quickly as I could. I needed a place to sleep. Moreover, I had been advised not to cycle in the dark in Mexico. Thankfully, a few kilometers later there was a restaurant. I decided to ask the owner if I could camp in the children’s playground next to the restaurant. The owner was not present. But I was not shunned away (Remember what happened to me in Texas? If not, click here.) One of the several female employees telephoned the owner. As I waited anxiously, avoiding the curious stares of the restaurant's customers, I was told that the owner agreed. This is Mexico, after all!

Campground for the night
Later, the night-guard even let me into the facilities meant for the employees so I could take a warm shower. I took a nice, long one. This guard was an old man. When I told him my homecountry, he remembered the Taj Mahal and Indira Gandhi! But he was mostly busy. I ended up talking to another old man who lived behind the restaurant in a shelter provided by the restaurant owner. This old man was homeless. I guess my journey fascinated him because we talked a lot. The next morning when I was ready to leave, he was concerned about my safety. He suggested that I hitch a ride to get to Monclova. I asked him not to worry.

Before leaving, it struck me that I could pay Abel’s kindness forward already. So I extended the 50 pesos to the homeless old man. I don’t think he told me his name. But I do have a picture of him:


Day 18 - Welcome to Mexico

I could hardly sleep the previous night. I was on a magic carpet flying through all the places in Latin America that I could think of. No, I was not on the stuff César gave me. I was genuinely that excited.

I woke up, showered, had pancakes and waffles for breakfast for probably the last time. They were too good! I said goodbye to my hosts and nervously rode away towards the border.

My amazing hosts in Del Rio

Can you see Mexico in the distance?
There was a Dollar General store on the way. I decided to try my luck and check if they had the HTC camera that I wanted. Nope. But I bought rechargeable batteries for $10. Sensible decision. The guy at the counter was nice enough to ask me if I had the right amount of change for the border toll bridge and tendered the exact change I would need.

I cycled towards the border. On my way, I saw a sign informing that carrying arms and drugs was an offense on the Mexican side of the border. (César's stuff! Metaphorical pee wet my pants.)

After some confusion at the US immigration office (I wanted an exit stamp on my passport. I knew that US does not provide an exit stamp when you leave by air because the airline company provides the data of you having left the country to the immigration authorities. But I was leaving by land. I wanted the friggin exit stamp. But no, they would not provide one.), I finally crossed the Bravo River, i.e. the border! I so wanted somebody to click a picture of me and Brownie entering the border with the sign "Mexico" a few meters away. But with all the huge trucks lined up on the bridge and all the cars whizzing past me, that was not possible.

Bravo River - the highway to the US for so many Latin Americans
The bridge over the river had a wired fence on both sides. "Mexico" on the edifice at the end of the bridge that housed the immigration and border security authorities was obscured by some cement blocks and part of the wired fence. I entered the gate. Alas, no picture of "Mexico" in big letters either.

Now, mind you, everything from this point onward took place in Spanish. So whatever I am going to share with you will be my translation. Some things will get lost in translation.

Seeing me all perplexed, a female security officer came up to me and asked me what all I was carrying on the bike. I pointed out food, water, clothes, tent, sleeping bag, cycle spare parts, etc. While I was speaking, the sniffer dog in the canine basket about 10 feet away started barking. Incessantly! I managed to control the metaphorical pee. She asked the other officers to calm the dog down. They were doing that already. She then asked me to park the bike and get clearance from the immigration officer. She said that she would inspect my stuff after that.

I went inside the immigration office. The officer asked me to fill up a form and pay the fee at a bank located outside. So, funnily, I could get inside the Mexican territory to pay the visa fee at a bank without my passport (I had no Mexican currency so I had to use my card.). No escorts. One of the hot security officers asked me to ensure that I came back. Haha. Anyway, it was not complicated at all. I went back to the immigration office. I got my permit. The immigration officer stamped my passport. The stamp was dated February 11, 2016. I reminded the officer that it was in fact the 12th of February. Welcome to Mexico?

See? I am not kidding!
I went out. The female officer who had initially instructed me was not there anymore. It seemed that the shift of the previous group of officers had ended. I could not see the canine basket either. There was a new female officer. She asked me where I was from. I told her India. I could see her eyes widen with amazement. She asked me to open my backpack. She looked around. I think she was checking if any of her supervisors was around. Apparently not. So she asked me the following questions while she languidly frisked the main compartment of my backpack:
1. Have you got any arms?
2. Any alcohol?
Hmm...
3. Drugs? *wink*

I obviously replied in the negative. I was asked to proceed.

Even though I had left early at about 8:30, I finally managed to enter Mexico at about 11:30.

I had no clue where to go next. In my excitement, I forgot to look up hosts or places to stay in Ciudad Acuña or where to go after Ciudad Acuña. I decided to check out the city first. Two officers of the Federales (the Federal police force) positioned right outside the border post whistled to call me out. They asked me the usual questions. They got quite excited after listening to my plan. They also asked me how India was doing. I think they meant development/economy wise. They told me the way to get out of the city and some other useful stuff. And off I went.

The first view of Ciudad Acuña:



I had just crossed a river, but the world around me had changed. In the streets, there was more colour, more people, and some chaos too.

There were street hawkers selling ice cream and other things.

You see Oxxo in the background? It's the Mexican 7-11.

There were cobbler stands.

This is how it should be. The client should get to sit. Indian cobblers, pay attention!

There was public transport! After New York, I had seen buses in Dallas and Austin. One could walk faster than them! But nothing in towns that were the size of Ciudad Acuña.

My first reaction? This could be India...in Spanish!

Within the first hour, this is what happened. A guy heading in the same direction as me slowed his car down to ask me what I was doing with all that stuff on my bike. I told him. He immediately mouthed some obscenities in Spanish. In jest, of course. The fear gauge was running a little high so I pretended lack of interest and moved on. (Honestly, he looked a little shady.)

I stopped to click a picture of this church:



A few seconds later, another man slowed his car down. He had the same questions. When I told him my plan, he exclaimed, "Orale!" That's a multipurpose Mexican Spanish slang. In this case it meant "Holy Fuck!" Then he stopped his car and got out. Fear gauge was under control so I stopped too. After an introductory conversation, he invited me to lunch! I thought he would take me for a snack or something. No. He treated me to a four-course meal! Welcome to Mexico!

A typical meal during Cuaresma or the Lent

He helped me plan my route for the next two weeks or so. He told me the tourist attractions and the eateries to check out in the towns that I would go through. He offered to connect me with his friends and acquiantances in those towns should I need something.


And then he invited me to his home!

I could not believe my luck.

Several friends and well-wishers, including some of my hosts and friends I had made on the road, repeatedly asked me if I had planned my route and my trip after the US. I hadn't. I know most of them thought I was being stupid. Maybe I was. But maybe, I have a guardian angel. Maybe we all have one. Maybe we unnecessarily try to control the future in the name of planning.

I was also compelled to think about this: this man stood to gain nothing by helping me. Why did he do all that for me?

Anyway, just like that, for the next 1000 Km or so, I had a new friend looking out for me. His name is Carlos. I don't know how I will ever return all his kindness.

Carlos and I